East Village · $$ · Italian restaurant · Restaurant
Forget a wine list — at Spes, you pick your bottle by mood and color from a spinning display, which is basically the most fun way to start a date that exists. The candlelit room is Italian-rustic and genuinely cozy; two glasses of skin-contact orange and a plate of octopus and you'll forget you ever had plans. Skip the crab gnocchi, order the lamb ragù mafalde, and let the night unfold from there.